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Giving the r eviews... What do you do when you want to leave a realistic honest review but know the other side won't take it well?  In the past I would never be afraid about sharing a review which is negative, however we live in a society where less than positive reviews are frowned upon. Everyone's opinion is just that... an opinion. If the experience one had is negative, should that review not be shared?  There is a saying I've developed over the years, "If himself tells himself he is good, then he is good in his vision and his reality is himself!". From political, social, religious, and even personal perceptions, growth can only be exponential if the views and others are considered. It does not mean we must change to suit others, but simply means everyone is not receiving what we think we are giving. There is also the perspective that coming out of differences we can learn and improve. I recall at an office party for an outgoing manager ...

Purpose  This is an impromptu post..."we can listen, share an opinion when asked, and even offer advice, but it is the decision of an individual to determine their 'comfortable action'. As friends we can sit on the sidelines as cheerleaders, encouraging and supporting our friends in their choices. Everyone must make their own choices and are accountable for their own actions!" Having 'a purpose' is important! There must be a reason to awake each morning and face each day with a purposeful resolve. Purpose will establish a road to walk on and a place to get to. Purpose is determined by you. You get the opportunity to create a purpose for your life and your day. You also get a chance to set your goals and plan a way to fulfill your purpose. It would be a sad state of affairs in any life if  there is no understanding of purpose. Imagine waking each day and just waiting for something to happen - just waiting and wondering what will fill the time an...

Talking is easy. Having a conversation to deliver your message can be harder than you think. Its about communication! On a daily basis we need to communicate. Understand the message to be shared, and let the words, body and technology work harmoniously. Ensure you clearly understand the message, and the person on the receiving end. Look and listen for signals of understanding as message is received. Show interest in feedback given, and offer clarification when necessary. Use your body language, listening skills and any tools necessary to make memorable communication. Keep it simple. *Listening is a skill which requires focus and attention – Give focused attention! Turn the mobile on silent, or off – be respectful of  each other’s time. Sincerity & clarity defines effective communication! Tip Be serious when its needed and use humor when you can. Show empathy, compassion, and most of all show your interest in the person communicating with! #Simplicity ...